Free lance post

Hellur:

What is up my doods?

(Okay i admit that's just cringe worthy)

Anyways did any of you go to models of pride on the 29th? If you didn't then I'm sorry for you, if you did it was hella lit wasn't it?

Hopefully you all know what I'm talking about and i don't seem weird talking about it. (Okay scratch that I'm no where near normal on the Internet.) Annnnnnnnnnny who point is it was fun. 

ITS NOVEMBER

I can't wait to do nothing productive for a week and forget how to function normally and cry about it when i come back from break :V. I don't know how to actually feel about the break because theres a good and a bad side good: i get to sleep in and do whatever (mostly eat cause you know thanksgiving) then bad: i turn a year older. That's right ma dudes i turn 15 in a matter of 21 days (lmao 21 pilots that made no sense I'm sorry to whoever actually reads these XD ) I'm scared, I'm so close to being an adult and i still use cringy emoticons. 

The seven habits of highly effective people

Habit #1: Be Proactive

"Habit #1 is the key to unlocking all the other habits and that's why it comes first. It says, 'I am the captain of my own life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passage." What this basically means is that no one knows how your life is going to turn out to be. No one but you because you're the one in charge of your life. No one else should be telling you how to live because you're the one who's living that life. You shouldn't dwell on a choice for too long because before you know it that opportunity will be gone. That and there's no one to blame but yourself if something goes wrong because you're the one in control. Be confident in you own choices. You're the one who decides and who knows you better than you? No one that's who. You really don't have much time to try and decide on something and then regret it later you just have to kind of roll with it. If you do something that you do regret don't mope around about it just find a way to fix it. (Or at least try tot make the situation not as bad.) 

Habit #2: Begin with end in mind
"Control you own destiny or someone else will." (Jack Welch)
"When you know where you intend to end up, you know where you are now." (Covey)\
If you think about what you're going to do later in life you have a plan set. The more you worry about the future the more you motivate yourself. It's basically what i do to keep me from losing my mind honestly. Mostly because i want to look back and know that i did something with my life. Or if i end up having grandchildren i want to tell them how life went and tell them my experiences. So by looking ahead i'm already thinking of how to sort my life out before i'm already 87. I'll need this plan early in life so that's why i need to start building it now. This doesn't just apply to me it should also be applying to you as well. 

Habit #3: Put first things first
"Organize and execute around priorities"
Putting first things first means that you put whats important first then you worry about everything else later. This is a tactic most people use because this is sort of like stacking things. The more you stack the more you need to keep things in order. Then once you're done with a responsibility you need to take one block off which you need to be careful because the tower of block you built over the years will come crashing down. (And i guess once it does fall down i think that represents a mental breakdown.) Either way you're supposed to try and keep it from falling because it becomes hard to function and no one is willing to slow down and keep at your pace. (Mostly because mental health issues like depression aren't viewed as severe until you become suicidal and actually start trying to kill yourself then that's when everyone's like "oh no look at this sick child/person/ whatever" then they consider it to be the parents fault for all of this happening and they don't dare consider themselves. Blah blah blah i went off topic) 

Habit #4: think win-win
"Think win-win or no deal" 
What this means is to think like a winner would. Instead of thinking 'i'm going to fail this' you should be thinking "I'm going to do what i can to win." Or "I'm going to win this because I'm going to win." You should start thinking like a very confident person would. You shouldn't worry about if you lose because then that's your chance to show sportsmanship. Instead of being a sore loser congratulate who ever won.The whole point of quotes like this is to try and motivate you into trying to be a very outgoing person who is confident in themselves. These quotes aren't asking you to follow everything they say (as in not to be taken literal because there's some quotes with metamorphic meanings.) They're just like small pieces of advise, you can either take it or reject it.

Habit #5: seek first to understand, then to be understood
"Diagnose before you prescribe."
What this means is to be good to others before they can be good to you as well. If you want someone to listen to you listen to them first. Treat others with respect before you can gain respect. Most people don't think about what they're doing. Most would just want something but never actually give it. But what they don't realize is that the other person might want the same thing as them. Whether it be respect or kindness they might want to experience it too not just you. 

Habit #6: Synergize
"The whole is greater than the sum of its parts (1+1=3)"
What this means is that the whole thing is better than just parts of it. For example if you have a box of paint with all the colors you can think of and you use them to paint various items. What would be more appealing to the eye? The tubs of paint or the paintings you made? (Most would say the tubs of paint because most of you will probably mention your terrible art skills and such but art can literally just be splatters and it'd be considered beautiful.) The paintings would be more appealing but the effort you made to paint it is just as great. (Even if it took 3% of effort it was still some effort.) 

Habit #7: Sharpen the saw
The four dimensions of self-renewal: physical,mental,spiritual,social,emotional.
What this means is that when you sharpen the saw it means you become someone new. You aren't dull anymore.Renewing yourself physically probably means that you probably started exercising and now you feel better. Renewing yourself mentally is probably when your point of view changes and you don't have the same opinion you did about three years ago. Renewing yourself spiritually is probably when you start to meditate and you're at peace for a while before you start to follow religious procedures. 

Reflection: The seven habit consist of ways to renew yourself and how to keep living your daily life both at the same time. These are very small and simple ways to do it. Since they're small and easy steps you feel as if nothings changed. The seven habits are supposed to help improve yourself. Its supposed to make you into a better person. You shouldn't expect something if you yourself arent going to do it. Habit #5 teaches us that. Be a good person/athlete etc, when it comes to winning. No one likes the feeling of being a loser when they tried their best. 

Free lance post #4

This is a mistake :

So i hate myself so much right now. I've done nothing productive and I'm just letting things pile up into a flaming mess right before me. I said last week (right about Thursday) that I'd start being productive and get everything done AHEAD of time but you wanna know what i did? I took several naps and stared at the wall like it was the most fascinating thing in the whole world.I think most of my grades dropped already ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i actually tried to raise them up and then they just dropped never to be seen again. I honestly can't wait for November because of the week we have off (hahaha i'm such a lazy bum.) Mostly because then i'll have time to sort my life out :V. That's pretty much all to say on that matter.👻👻👻👻👻👻

          YOU'VE JUST BEEN SPOOKED

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okay bye

Remembering names

How to remember people's names:

Meet and repeat:

when you meet someone repeat their name

Make connections with that name:

Associate a color scent or something that will help you remind you what their name is.

 

Spell it out:

Spelling the name is like repeating it

Write it down:

The simplest way to do things

free lance post #3

Okay so,

I forgot where was i, i stopped mid sentence and then just deleted everything :v. So Dan and Phil huh? The tour, spooky week, pinof 8? WHO'S HELLA PUMPED FOR IT? I'M HELLA PUMPED UP FOR IT. GUESS WHAT THIS LOSER IS ALSO PUMPED UP FOR? YOU GUESSED IT HIVESWAP. Jegus christ its like christmas up in here and it's barely the begining of october. The spoop lords have blessed up :V.

young man theres memes on the ground

i said young man

theres memes all around

wake me up 

wake me up inside

(cant wake up)

How to win friends and influence people

   Six ways to make people like you . If you want people to like you...

Rule #1: Become genuinely interested in other people
1) "do this and you'll be welcomed anywhere."
2) "you can make friends in two months by becoming interested in other people that you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
3) "ask questions to other people ,questions that they would enjoy answering."
What this generally means is when talking to someone new try getting them to talk about their interests. Sure introducing yourself and talking about your interests is fine but don't over do it. That and it's kind of being polite when you make them talk about their interests because you dudes just met. But it's never okay to start assuming what someone likes and doesn't like . For example you meet a girl and she automatically likes (just because she's a girl) that she likes pink, bows, dresses, makeup,heels,and she likes watching soap opera type of things.Which is in fact wrong for all we know she might be fandom trash, She might like horror more than she likes herself. Who knows what she might be into unless you really get to know her (she might not liked being called as a she and it might actually be a he/they/or them. I swear to god if one of you bring that "did you just assume my gender" meme i will throw a crab at you) Or of you were to meet a dude you most likely wouldn't assume that hes a fuccboi or any of that sort until you knew the dude's antics.

Rule #2: Smile
1) "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "i like you.You make me happy.I am glad to see you."
2) "You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
3) "It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."
(I honestly don't think you should be forcing yourself to smile if you're not up to it but then i again its your choice.) Okay so smiling is one way of basically saying "hi look I'm friendly." and it can also mean "i wanna talk." or "I'm smiling for no particular reason and I'd like to be left alone thanks." Either way you kind of have to be respectful about peoples personal space. Also if you frown all the time or have a mean look most of the time is say just try to have a neutral kind of face. So that way people can approach you more confidently. (Sorry if i offended anyone.) I wouldn't recommend going up to random strangers and saying hi in the loudest voice you can. (Like i mean you could but there's a bunch of people who are always upset and there might be a chance that's who you might run into.) But i guess smiling is just another way of being polite. I forgot where i was going with this.

Rule #3: Remember names
1)"A mans name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."
Remembering names is important for making new friends because that's what you're going to be referring them to. It's kind of hard and very awkward to forget and try to ask what their name is. That and they might get offended that you forgot but it's clearly not your fault you just met. Either way remembering someones name is very important. (Also to a person if you forget their name it means you forgot about them.Which is not really how it works, you forgot what they're called but not who they are.)

Rule #4: Be a good listener, Encourage others to talk about themselves.
1) "If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
2) "Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems."
So, first things first, when you meet someone for the first time I'm pretty sure they'd like to get to know a stranger rather than to ramble on about their lives first but you know there are some people who do it vice versa. Anyways its also polite to ask about them like just in general (like ask how their day was and how they're doing.) Also asking to talk about themselves helps you to get to know them. Its better to ask about them than to start talking about yourself because that's your first impression to them. And you want to make a first good impression so its better to ask them rather than to talk about yourself.

Rule #5: Talk in terms of the other mans interest
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk about things he treasures most.'
The ideal way to make conversation with someone you (apparently) just met is to talk about what they like most. It's fascinating how one word (or some words) can get someone gushing about the same topic for hours. For example, if you ever meet a book work or a "fandom trash child"( as most refer themselves as on the Internet) you just have to mention a book/fandom they're currently obsessed with (it's usually pretty obvious) and they'll start screaming and talking non stop about how they love a certain character and that they never saw (whatever) coming and how (characters name) didn't deserve this and it goes on. But if you want someone to gush about something for hours then meet a trash child.

Rule #6: Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey) "Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
When you first meet someone you don't really know much about them. You really can't start assuming things about them because how they acted the first time you meet them. What they show the first time they meet you may not be who they actually are over time. And with that being said you don't know if they've ever been appreciated by someone. Making someone feel important even if it's just for a few minutes will have them smiling about it for weeks.

Final reflection:  When you first meet someone its nice to talk about their interests first to make sure they're comfortable with you/around you. Smiling during the conversation shows that you're interested in what they're saying. Remembering their names makes them feel as if they were remembered and actually made some sort of bond with you. Having a one side conversation isn't much fun/its not a good thing the other person whom you're supposed to be talking to will get bored and won't want to talk at all. Talking about the other person's interests gives both of you something to talk about. And making them feel like they're not a bother is even better because that's how you make friends. (Keep in mind that this doesn't work the same for all people.)

Medical school research

Harvard Medical School

Located in Boston Massachusetts 

Admission Requirements: Must not be a transfer student, must provide evidence that they have the credentials to predict success in the study/practices of medicine. Must have at least one year of medical criteria in Canada or the united states. 

Tuition:  $58,050 in total for everything would be at least $291,730 for a year. 
Degrees offered: PHd and M.D

Reflection; I would like to attend here because it seems like a great place to learn. Although i'd like to attend here i wouldn't have the money for it and to earn a scholarship i dont think it'd be able to cover all four years.